Wellbeing for Our Ukrainian Students

Wellbeing for Our Ukrainian Students
Together, we're building strength, resilience, and hope through evidence-based wellbeing strategies designed specifically for young people navigating extraordinary circumstances. You are not alone in this journey.
Why This Matters Here and Now
We've been learning about wellbeing together, and I want to place it in the context of our own lives here in Ukraine. Every day, we are living through something most young people in the world cannot imagine. Sirens, explosions, loss, and constant uncertainty affect not only the body but also the brain.
What you're experiencing is real, valid, and understandable. Your reactions are normal responses to abnormal circumstances. Research shows that 44% of Ukrainian children today are living with symptoms of PTSD — Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. You are part of a community that understands, and there is hope and healing available.
Remember: These wellbeing lessons aren't just "nice ideas" — they are survival skills that make our brains stronger, calmer, and more focused even in the most difficult times. Every strategy you learn is a tool you can use today and carry with you always.
Understanding PTSD: When Your Brain Gets Stuck in Danger Mode
PTSD is when the brain stays stuck in "danger mode" even after the danger has passed. Think of it like a smoke alarm that won't stop beeping even when there's no fire. Your brain is trying to protect you, but sometimes it needs help learning when it's safe to relax.
Sleep Challenges
Trouble sleeping, constant nightmares, or waking up feeling exhausted. Your brain processes stress during sleep, so disrupted rest affects everything.
Hypervigilance
Jumping at loud sounds, always scanning for danger, or feeling like you can't fully relax. Your nervous system is working overtime to keep you safe.
Concentration Issues
Trouble focusing in class because your brain is busy watching for threats. This is why schoolwork might feel harder than before.
Important truth: PTSD is not a weakness. It's your brain's way of trying to protect you after experiencing frightening events. And here's the hopeful news: brains can heal, grow stronger, and learn to feel safe again.
Recognizing PTSD Symptoms in Yourself and Others
Emotional Overwhelm
Big emotions that feel out of control - sudden anger, deep sadness, or intense fear. These feelings might seem to come from nowhere, but they're your brain processing trauma. It's okay to feel big emotions; they're temporary and manageable with the right tools.
Avoidance Behaviors
Staying away from reminders of scary events, avoiding certain places or activities, or not wanting to talk about what happened. This is natural, but gentle, gradual re-engagement with life helps healing.
Memory and Thinking Changes
Difficulty remembering things, trouble making decisions, or feeling disconnected from yourself. Trauma affects how the brain processes information, but these changes can improve with care and time.
Physical Responses
Headaches, stomach problems, feeling tired all the time, or getting sick more often. Trauma lives in the body too, which is why taking care of your physical health is part of emotional healing.
If you recognize these symptoms in yourself or a friend, please know that help is available. Speaking with a trusted adult, counselor, or mental health professional can provide additional support beyond these wellbeing strategies.
🌱 Your Six Keys to Wellbeing Framework
These six evidence-based strategies work together like ingredients in a recipe for mental strength. You don't need to master them all at once - start with one or two that feel most doable right now, and gradually add others as you build confidence.
Fuel Your Brain
Nutrition for mental clarity and emotional stability
Move Your Body
Physical activity for cognitive function and mood
Train Your Thoughts
Cognitive strategies for managing difficult emotions
Connect & Protect
Social support and healthy boundaries
Guard Your Brain
Protecting against harmful substances and overload
Grow Your Purpose
Finding meaning and direction in daily life
Key #1: Fuel Your Brain for Resilience
Your brain uses about 20% of your daily energy, and during times of stress, it needs even more fuel to function well. The foods you choose directly impact your ability to concentrate, manage emotions, and cope with challenges.
Brain-Boosting Foods
Omega-3 rich foods: Fish, walnuts, flaxseeds - support brain structure and reduce inflammation
Complex carbohydrates: Oats, whole grains, sweet potatoes - provide steady energy for focus
Antioxidant-rich fruits: Berries, apples, citrus - protect brain cells from stress damage
Leafy greens: Spinach, kale - contain folate which supports mood regulation
Protein sources: Eggs, beans, lean meats - provide amino acids for neurotransmitter production
Foods That Drain Energy
Excessive sugar: Causes energy crashes and mood swings
Energy drinks: Create anxiety-like symptoms and disrupt sleep
Heavily processed foods: Lack nutrients needed for brain function
Too much caffeine: Can worsen anxiety and interrupt healing sleep
Practical tip: If healthy foods aren't always available, focus on staying hydrated and eating regularly. Even small improvements in nutrition can support your mental health during difficult times.
Key #2: Move Your Body, Grow Your Mind
Gentle Movement Options
Even in shelters or confined spaces, you can do chair exercises, wall push-ups, or simple stretches. These activate your nervous system in healthy ways and help process trauma stored in the body. Movement doesn't need to be intense to be beneficial - consistency matters more than intensity.
Walking and Fresh Air
When it's safe, walking outside combines movement with nature exposure, both proven to reduce stress hormones. Walking while talking with a friend or listening to music can make it more enjoyable and sustainable as a daily habit.
Mind-Body Practices
Gentle yoga, tai chi, or simple breathing exercises while moving help regulate your nervous system. These practices teach your body the difference between tension and relaxation, which is especially helpful for trauma recovery.
Science fact: Just 20 minutes of movement increases BDNF (brain-derived neurotrophic factor), a protein that helps your brain grow new connections and repair from stress. Movement literally helps your brain heal.
Trauma-informed tip: Choose movement that feels safe and empowering. If certain exercises trigger memories, that's okay - try something different. Your body will tell you what feels good and helpful.
Key #3: Train Your Thoughts for Inner Strength
PTSD often creates a stream of negative, scary thoughts that feel completely true. But here's an important secret: not every thought is accurate or helpful. Learning to notice and gently redirect thoughts is one of the most powerful tools for emotional healing.
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Notice the Thought
"I'm having the thought that I'm always in danger." Simply observing thoughts without judgment creates space between you and the thought - you are not your thoughts.
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Question It Gently
"Is this thought helpful right now? Is it based on what's happening now, or what happened before?" You don't need to argue with thoughts, just examine them with curiosity.
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Choose a More Helpful Thought
"Right now, in this moment, I am safe. I have people who care about me. I am learning to heal." This isn't fake positivity - it's choosing thoughts that help you cope and grow.
Thought Reframing Examples
"I can't do this" → "I'm learning to do this, one step at a time"
"I'm broken" → "I'm healing and growing stronger"
"Nothing will ever be normal" → "I'm creating a new kind of normal"
"I'm always scared" → "Sometimes I feel scared, and I also have courage"
Simple Mindfulness Practice
5-4-3-2-1 Grounding: When thoughts feel overwhelming, notice 5 things you can see, 4 you can touch, 3 you can hear, 2 you can smell, 1 you can taste. This brings you back to the present moment where you have more control.
Key #4: Connect & Protect Through Relationships
Trauma tries to convince us that we're alone and that others can't understand. But connection is medicine for wounded hearts. Humans are wired for relationship, and healing happens best in the context of safe, supportive connections with others who care.
Daily Connection Practice
Set aside 20 minutes daily for meaningful connection without phones or distractions. This could be talking with family, playing a game with friends, or having a real conversation with a teacher. Quality matters more than quantity - one genuine conversation can shift your entire day.
Share the Load
Strong people don't hide their pain - they share it with trusted people. Identify 2-3 adults or peers you can talk to when emotions feel too heavy. Having multiple sources of support prevents overwhelming any one person and ensures help is always available.
Be a Safe Person
Practice active listening, offer encouragement, and be present for others. When you help someone else feel less alone, you also strengthen your own sense of connection and purpose. Helping others heal can be part of your own healing journey.
Important boundary: While connection heals, you don't need to carry everyone's pain. It's okay to say "I care about you, and right now I need to take care of myself too." Healthy relationships have space for both support and boundaries.
Remember: asking for help is not weakness - it's wisdom. Professional counselors, trusted teachers, family members, and mental health services are all part of your support network. You deserve care and support as you navigate these challenging times.
Key #5: Guard Your Brain Like the Treasure It Is
Protect Your Sleep
Sleep is when your brain literally cleans itself, processes emotions, and consolidates memories. Aim for 8-9 hours when possible. Even if sirens interrupt nighttime sleep, take naps during safer hours. Create a calming bedtime routine: dim lights, avoid screens for an hour before sleep, and practice gentle breathing.
Trauma-informed sleep tips: Keep a small flashlight nearby for comfort, practice progressive muscle relaxation, and remind yourself that it's normal for sleep to be disrupted during stressful times.
Avoid Brain Toxins
No drugs or alcohol: These interfere with trauma processing and can worsen PTSD symptoms
Limit screen overload: Too much news or social media can overwhelm an already stressed nervous system
Choose media carefully: Violent or disturbing content can re-traumatize; choose content that feels safe and uplifting
Moderate caffeine: While some can help focus, too much increases anxiety
Remember: Your developing brain is especially vulnerable to harmful substances. Protecting it now sets you up for a lifetime of better mental health.
Information Diet
Just like you choose healthy food for your body, choose healthy information for your mind. Limit news consumption to once or twice daily from trusted sources, and balance difficult news with positive content, learning, or creativity.
Digital Boundaries
Create phone-free zones and times, especially during meals and before bed. Social media can increase anxiety and comparison - notice how different apps make you feel and adjust accordingly.
Key #6: Grow Your Purpose and Inner Light
Purpose is like a lighthouse in stormy weather - it gives you direction when everything feels chaotic. After trauma, rediscovering purpose is a crucial part of healing. Purpose doesn't need to be grand; small, meaningful actions can create profound positive change in your life and the lives of others.
Start Small
Purpose can begin with tiny actions: helping a classmate understand a concept, encouraging a friend who's struggling, or learning one new thing each day. These small acts of meaning accumulate into a stronger sense of self and direction.
Daily Purpose Practice
Each morning, ask yourself: "What positive thing can I do today that my future self will thank me for?" This could be studying for 30 minutes, being kind to someone who's difficult, or taking care of your physical health.
Bigger Vision
As you heal and grow stronger, your sense of purpose might expand to include career goals, ways to help your community, or contributions you want to make to rebuilding and strengthening Ukraine. Your experiences, though difficult, can become sources of wisdom and strength for others.
"The most beautiful people I've known are those who have known trials, have known struggles, have known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern."
Your experiences with hardship, while painful, are developing in you qualities of resilience, empathy, and strength that will serve you and others throughout your life. This is part of your unique purpose.
Putting It All Together: Classroom Activities & Next Steps
Learning about wellbeing is just the beginning - practicing these strategies together makes them more powerful and sustainable. Here are ways to integrate these six keys into your daily life and classroom community.
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Brain Fuel Chart
Create a personal chart listing foods that give you energy versus foods that drain it. Share discoveries with classmates and brainstorm healthy snack ideas that are accessible and affordable. Make this a ongoing experiment in noticing how different foods affect your mood and concentration.
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Thought Detective Practice
Write a challenging thought on paper, then work together to "investigate" it - is it helpful? Is it based on current reality? Practice reframing it into a more balanced, supportive thought. This builds the skill of cognitive flexibility that's crucial for trauma recovery.
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Safe Circle Sharing
In small groups, share one strategy that helps you feel calmer when stressed. Listen without trying to fix or compare - just witness each other's wisdom. Create a class list of coping strategies everyone can try.
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Purpose Post-it Wall
Write one daily goal that gives your life meaning on a sticky note. Post them anonymously on a classroom wall. Reading others' purposes reminds everyone that they're not alone and that small meaningful actions matter.
Remember This Always
You are not broken. You are not weak. You are not alone. You are a young person showing incredible courage by continuing to learn, grow, and care for others during extraordinary circumstances. These wellbeing tools are gifts you can give yourself every day - they work when you practice them consistently with patience and self-compassion.
Your healing matters. Your wellbeing matters. You matter. Take these strategies one day at a time, celebrate small victories, and be patient with the process. Healing isn't linear, but with the right tools and support, you can not only survive these difficult times but emerge stronger, wiser, and more compassionate than ever before.
Resources for additional support: If you need professional help, please reach out to school counselors, mental health services, or trusted adults. These wellbeing strategies complement but don't replace professional mental health care when needed.
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